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Often times, we tend to focus on what is “wrong” with a person and not on what is “right”. Not only do we do this in regards to other people, but also to ourselves. It’s time that we started to look at what is right. Energy flows where attention goes. The more you focus on what is “wrong” the more it will show up; and vice versa. Help heal the world and yourself, by pointing out the good.
Your joy lies within you and you are the only person that is responsible for it. Often times we look to other people to make us happy, but no one else has that power. Happiness comes from within. It is a choice, so make the decision to be happy today and everyday! DO NOT GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY!
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Despite what we want to believe about ourselves, many, many people are most certainly hypocrites. We state that others should do this or that, or not do this or that. Yet, we fail to take our own advice. One area where I noticed that I am a hypocrite is in the area of how I treat others and how I expect others to treat me. Particularly, in judging or speaking badly of others and taking offense to people judging or speaking badly about me.
We, as a people, have to learn to hold ourselves up to the same standard that we hold others. How can we ever become upset when someone judges us, if we constantly judge or have judged another? How can we ever be offended when someone mistreats us, if we mistreat or have mistreated another? How can we ever be angered by the knowledge that someone has spoken badly about us behind our back, if you speak badly about others behind their backs. Yes, we are special, but not special in a way that we can put out negativity and not expect to receive it back. We are not special in a way that we can sets rules for others that we are not willing to follow.
I find that judgement is a huge issue for most people and most do not even know it. The judgment of the actions, choices, clothing, hair, shoes, etc. of another is our selfish desire to have control over them and to have them do what we think is best. People are entitled to do and choose as they wish, especially if it does not interfere with the life and happiness of another. Keep your eyes on your own paper and focus on you and yours! You do not know the plan that God has for lives of others or the path they must take. Your way might be right for you, but not another. People are not required to be and do the way we think they should. Develop the skill to let others be and refrain from passing judgment on them. Instead send them prayers and blessings! If we spend half the time and energy working on improving ourselves as we do judging and focusing on other people, the world would be a much better place.
Remember that whatever we give, we receive. Make sure that the energy you put out is loving and positive, for it will surely find its way back to you. Practice what you preach! Truly treat others the way you wish to be treated! Be a blessing today and everyday!
I encourage you to refrain from judging or speaking badly about anything or anyone for a whole day. It may sound easy, but trust me, it is very difficult. This exercise will help you to become more aware of just how judgmental and negative you might be. Once you have conquered a day, try 2 days, then a week. Keep practicing and building until you are able to see only through the eyes of love and possess the ability to allow others to be and do as they choose.
“Remember to be awesome today!” ~ S.L.
Good morning! Hope everyone had a great 4th of July holiday! My time off was awesome and very relaxing. However, it’s back to work for me today. It’s a raining day here in Ohio. Raining days used to bring me down until I realized that there is no such thing as a “gray” day. Behind those gray clouds, the sun is still shining. We just can’t see it.
Have a great day everyone and remember that even though there may be some gray clouds in your life, right above those clouds, the sun is still shining! The storm will pass. Stay strong!
What’s your story? What reasons do you have for being the way you are or for being in the position you are in? Does it hold you back or push you forward? What purpose does this story serve? In other words, what do you get out of it? Whatever the benefits are, if it’s preventing you from living up to your full potential; the cost is too high, the load is too heavy, and it’s time to let it go.
Sometimes in life we go through horrible things and live in unfavorable circumstances that cause us a great deal of pain. However, the real damage is done when we allow ourselves to get addicted to that story and tell it to ourselves (and others) over and over and over again. Being addicted to a painful story only keeps you stuck in the pain or the unfavorable circumstance.
It’s time to get unstuck from your story. It’s time to let it go for it’s just too heavy and it’s keeping you from moving forward and being the person that you want to be. Let go of the painful story and start telling yourself a more empowering story. Yes, you may have gone through horrible circumstances, you may have grown up in poverty, your may have been raised without a mother or a father, you may be a single mother, you may have been abused, etc; but it doesn’t define who you are. YOU DEFINE WHO YOU ARE!
According to Iyanla Vanzant, there are 3 steps to getting unstuck from your story.
“When you stop telling the old story, a new one will bubble to the surface!” Iyanla Vanzant